Keeping in with the holiday theme of gorging yourself silly I've decided to write the Kink of the Week about Food Play (sitophilia). We had a wonderful article on Tuesday about the Wet & Messy (WAM) fetish, but what I want to talk about takes it a little further, after all not all Food Play is messy, even if it does get you wet!
One of the most basic mainstream food play acts out there is using whipped cream. The kind that comes in a can provides a delicious way to entice your partner into performing oral sex, or you can have some fun with it and use it to draw on their body and tease them by licking it off. Other favored toppings are chocolate syrup and candy.
A lot of people talk about the movie 9 and 1/2 weeks (staring a hot and young Mickey Rourke and Kim What's-her-face) when they are talking about food play, continuing the cliche', I think the movie is a wonderful example of how erotic food and sex can be. The scene I'm referring to is the one where they sit in front of the fridge. She is told to keep her eyes closed, and is then fed all sorts of foods and condiments. Eventually it ends up in a messy love scene. There are all sorts of foods that are just naturally erotic such as strawberries, chocolate, and champagne. You can feed these, and anything else you can think of, to a partner. It's a great way to play with their mouth and stimulate their senses.
Another way one can use food during sex is using fruits and vegetables as sex toys. They can be used vaginally or anally. Phallic vegetables such as bananas and cucumbers are the most common and the use of them as dildos can be found in many adult videos. Any type of fruit or vegetable can be used however. I've seen eggplants, oranges, squash, carrots, and a variety of others used in every hole. Playing with produce in this way can be enjoyed on it's own or can be something to toy with during a bondage scene. For those that are keener on penetrating versus being penetrated you can cut a hole a melon or squash, like a pumpkin or cantaloupe and use it as a masturbator. The gooey insides and the tight hole of the rind can be a very stimulating sensation.
Food play provides an exciting experience for people of all flavors, but safety and your health should always be taken into consideration. Pay attention to food allergies, because you can have a bad reaction, even if you aren't eating anything. More so, when playing vaginally or anally you have to make sure to thoroughly clean afterwards, so you don't leave anything behind and develop an infection. The vagina has a specific chemical balance that can be offset by many things, so it's not recommended to use any liquids internally, and using a condom with vegetables and fruits might be a safer option to those who are more sensitive. Additionally when penetrating something unprotected little bits of the food can enter the urethra, so a condom is recommended for men as well.
There is whole world of Food Play fetishes out there, from the Japanese fetish Nyotairori where a woman is used as a sushi platter, to BBWs eating pie. If you haven't heard something that intrigues you, let your imagination run wild, you're bound to unearth something you like. I know what I'll be doing with my Thanksgiving leftovers this year! Gobble Gobble!
